Episode 218
Eroticism, pleasure, sensuality and embodied consent in postpartum & beyond
with Gal Mar-Qz
hosted by clinical herbalist & integrative health educator Kay'aleya Hunnybee
Eroticism, pleasure, sensuality and embodied consent in postpartum & beyond
with sexological bodyworker & sex educator Gal Mar-Qz
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Postpartum is an immense time of transition that includes not only having a new baby, but also navigating a massive hormonal cliff, recovery after birth, body changes, erratic sleep schedules, identity change and so much more.
So where does pleasure, sexuality, sensuality and eroticism come in?
And how do we enter into that space with attunement, tenderness, self-awareness and... perhaps most importantly embodied consent?
Most mamas and birthing parents are given the go-ahead to engage in sex again at 6 or 8 weeks by their provider, but many are not ready - at all (let's normalize this).
Just because your tissues are healed enough to safely engage in sexual intercourse does NOT mean you have to start doing it again.
There are SO MANY WAYS to experience pleasure and orgasm and sex that do not have to involve intercourse.
And listening to your body, your mind, your spirit is paramount.
What you want and what you like might be entirely different from before.
Sexological bodyworker and sex educator Gal Mar-Qz shares all about these topics and much more on today's episode.
We also explore some practices you can bring into your body, your partnership or even your parenting life that may be very helpful as you re-discover who you are now as you blend the identities of mother and erotic being.
I hope this conversation feels like a gift for you!
Resources:
- Free visualization: Womb Connection & Clearing meditation
- Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent
- Episode 185: Enhanced orgasms w Susan Bratton
- Episode 190: Awakening erotic aliveness w Usha Rose
- Episode 192: Pleasure as medicine w Dr Emily Wilson
Connect with Gal:
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Explore her offerings at Venus Noire
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Connect on social:
IG: @shesvenusnoire
FB: Gal Mar-Qz
DISCLAIMER: This podcast and blog is for educational purposes only, I am not providing any medical advice, I am not a medical practitioner, I’m an herbalist and in the US, there is no path to licensure for herbalists, so my role is as an herbal educator. Please do your own research and consult your healthcare provider for any personal health concerns.
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